Change,the only CONSTANT

Hahahahahaha stupid person!!

"Unstick our stuck" GM

firstly I would like to say hi...so hi I have read through your thread and found your insight and your journey of freedom warming. Ciggy giggles too.

"Unstick our stuck" I really like this perhaps another Dr Seuss is lurking. I have written in my mind...yes there are pages there... "unstick MY stuck"

Nice and simple three words a wee mantra that i will use - reflect on - thank you for that
It is awesome that you find inspiration to write when here on TBBD. You may have already noted the Journal Room - Paddy has set up. So possibly you could write your 'story' there..... not too sure if others are able to read - i imagine not...i think it states somewhere if you want to share, post your journal writings. Something to check out....


Poetry

Re....

claire_sky wrote:Oh wow your wife is a very brave woman!

Hi Claire,
I got my Partner in here to read your coments OUTLOUD
as i thought she might be able to strengthen Her stand
against Men.

She enjoyed it and has passed-on this big green thankyou.

Your own writing is perfect here!
What are you going on about???
self denyal or just putting it off
untill later....lol
So No Blahs from NOW-ON.
NOW is your POWER.

[quote="poetry"]"Unstick our stuck" GM [quote]

Hi Poetry,

thank you.

Its supportive to be reflective
as you have been for Me!
Youre driving me on with your feedback
and my partner so wants to hear the full story having caught snipets in the wind.

Im thinking about the conceptual nature of How to Get it Accross at present,
as i want it to be a useful piece of writing,
something that ppl may find constructive
rather than jsimply entertaining.

ie...unstick my stuck."Nice and simple three words a wee mantra that i will use".
I hadnt seen the 'mantra aspect' of that remark before you mentioned it;I regularly use mantras.

Goes to seek-out the Journal Room

If things are published on a Message Board such as TBBDMB,will publishing companies take them on?
gm

More on the Ciggie Box planter!
This morning,
he has planted a box at the base of the gatepost
rather than near the letter box which has about 6 boxes
scattered at its base!
(the earlier ones were placed in the waste bin)
Worth a picture?

22ndMay

are they all different sorts?

nope!
and all of the same hand.
Today several ppl stood looking at the pile
not knowing from where they had come.

My partner often is seen
standing at the letterbox
chatting with the passersbye,
all watching boxes multiply.

LOL Oh you guys are classic for leaving the ciggy packets there! Very funny. Perhaps the guys is a bit OCD in his routine or something?

RE: Change being the only constant. I always say i adapt well to change. Its something i actually thrive on and enjoy. Wow havnt said that word enjoy for a long time. But about change, i understand what change is but its the putting into action part of changing that I fail in. I guess its a confidence thing.

Anyhow perhaps thats one for my own journal and not hijacking your thread!

But thanks for the picture. And good on you for involving your partner in this site.

Claire,

why thank you.

I thought involving Her here
were like 'not going away' to another life on a MBd
somewhere in cyber-space where she might say I go
when she is too hard to manage....lol

Sharing is an important part of my life
but not to the extent of having to GET anothers attention
so that I can satisfy my egos desire for audience.

GM and NM (lol) both share the important things whilst living together
and allow the other (forgotten) things to bob-up
at their own leisure.

Re-" i understand what change is but its the putting into action part of changing that I fail in".

Choice is POWERful.

Before making the same mistake twice
or thrice,
we see within our minds the memory of our previous DESIREs for change,the memory of ealier-conversations we have had with our innerself, where we prayed for power to make-change in our reality.

From this back seat,we are closer to Ourself;intuition is stronger and we can muster the right choice much-more easily,having made a back-seat moment happen for ourselves.

Counting 1-2-3-4 or holding your breath a few seconds can make back-seat moments occur.
Awareness can give us many back-seat moments in life,
and by developing awareness one can sail along thro life effortlessly.

THE WATCHER is always with us where ever we stray in life...inwards or outwards into the World.

Hey GM like the new picture..

Are you trying to tell us that you are finding life a bit of a lemon so your making the best of a bad situation by obtaining the juice out of it?

when life goes wrong
and dreams broken,
How else can one make something
out of nothing?

Making ground spiritually
from the Pain and mishaps that life dishes out to us all,
is an Age Old Way.

greasemonkey

aha!
at last,
the pkts have stopped dropping
and co-dependancy re-surface in my relationship with My Smoking partner,
who claims to be addicted.

Much is in a swirl here at present,
as love grows stronger
tears flow like rivers
and truth resurfaces
like an old friend
having undergone a diving holiday.
lol

LOL

The Pkts have been cleared from the letterbox.
Life in the home is 'alive' for both of us
as we adjust our acting-rolls
having been found-out
by love.

In co-dependancy we USE each other.

The blame game comes about due to another not playing their Roll
and upsetting the other in their Hidy-hole.

One mustnt hide in the mind of our own making,
as that is egoistic activity,and we are not Mind,
We are better and bigger than a Mind,
and with unlimited possibilities,
a Universal Being
needs no ego.

Boundaryless and standing alone,
I see what the mind is good for
and retain Master Status
surrounding my mind.

Mind can-not know its Master.

but the mind should know it's master..the body it is in.

I think the mind is in the body also...
But when the mind dies,or is vacated,What then.
Where is master?

there isn't one then,

were that a Question?

Most ppl say, "its all in the Mind!" and 'I have a Mind to do something' etc, and this sort of common-speech alludes to there being a mind somewhere around us,which only we ourself can see,yet some others(few others)can see into.

HERE at TBBDMB we have in our motiff,
"depression and other mental illnesses!".

Yes,
there is a Mind,
millions upon millions of them,and everyone slightly different.
Personality comes from what is held in the mind.

Since our body is constantly changing,it can be said that our minds are continually changing also.
Maybe,
when we arrest the mind from changing we create belief.
What do you think,in yourmind about that concept of belief?

true, it is difficult for a body to function without a mind. but a mind with out a physical body cannot funtion also.

so which is it... mind or body?

to me neither can exist with out the other...so they coexist... with each other being the slave and master.

neither,in answer to your question.

Thanks for being here by the way,its good to be on the spot together.
I must say that,I didnt think you were here at this moment and have adjusted the first post i made here today,so as to make it alittle more interesting...
I hope you DONT MIND!(which truelly means take exception to the fact that Ive changed a post,possibly without your awareness!
lol

"Since our body is constantly changing,it can be said that our minds are continually changing also.
Maybe,
when we arrest the mind from changing we create belief.
What do you think,in yourmind about that concept of belief?"

I do believe that our minds are also forever changing - that is how we grow as a person. Even when we think our minds are arrested (?) and we create a belief, I believe that belief can still be changed. Our minds are never closed (unless of course we ae a vegatable perhaps) - and you are living proof of this by proof via your posts.

did that confuse you?

and to answer your question - yeah I think your fingers were quicker than my answer, but that is ok.

if we are growing as a person
what were we at birth
before Birth,
and how does one know
without remembering?

S
O
M
E
T
I
M
E
S
Sometimes..
when you
cry... no one sees your tears.
Sometimes...
when you
are in pain... no one sees your hurt.
Sometimes...
when you
are worried.. no one sees your stress.
Sometimes... when you are
happy.. no one sees your smile
.
- - - - - - - - - - But
FART!!
just ONE time... And
everybody knows!!

lol,
really,
it is upto us
to find reason to Live ehhh!