Dear Pam

Dear Pam,

I really don’t quite know what to say about the sudden death of your Sister my dear friend and all I can probably do is offer my deepest sympathies and ask that you take especial care of you, eh? That feels very inadequate, sorry Pam.

We have a few folk around the Chch area now, so please Pam, if there is anything you think someone can help you with, let us or me know? Bless You.

Please also know hon, that if there are things you want to say, words you need to use, but ya don’t quite wanna use them out loud, I’m listening. If you need to say some unladylike things, I kinda understand that – I struggle to remain a gentleman at times.

Lots of gentle love,

Paddy.

Hello Pam, So very sorry to hear about your Sister. That's very sad.

Gentle hugs for you ................ Daze

oh Paddy there are many unladylike words I would like to use and beleive me in my head I am screaming everyone of those. Last night I txt most of my family with hugs and i got this unbelievable response from one. she was screaming at me. I had a family of 12, 5 have gone and I'm not that old, but the baby in my family was playing the baby and she just lost the plot. I wasn't in the best place myself so to have this happen was not the greatest, howevere i understand her geift, a huge amount of loss. Hugs for your thoughts, I appreciate it. I'm screaming inside.

So sorry to hear about your sister. Look after yourself!

Hi Pam I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your sister. I don't really know what to say other than I hope you have friends and other family members around you and that you are able to support one another through this tough time. Take care Pam. xx

Thankkyou guys,
What makes it even harder is my youngest sis has also lost her twin grand babies over the last couplesof days and instead of her shareing her greif so I can help she has just lost it. Trying to help but dont know what to do.

Oh shit oh dear, Pam.

I mean, Crikey, and my Condolences to your younger sister and her other family - it must be an hell of a time for a lot of folk, you included, hon.

What support have you got, my dear friend? I hope that Mr Snorer can offer some comfort and support; I'm sure he will - he must be a pretty decent sorta bloke to have caught your discerning eyes.

Stay strong sweetheart and 'ya other thread'? Say what ya need, as ya need to say it Pam - we can always delete it later for ya, k?

Mmmwah,

Paddy & TBT.

Dear Pam
Hugs to you all at this time...it will be a long road for you all..take it slowly and feel it no matter what any one says dont cover your greif....My heart is with you!