Guys I need your help!!!!

OK my hubby is NOT QUITE getting this whole depressed wife thing..........any websites etc that you may be able to recommend him research or read to perhaps get a better understanding of the whole
"Depression" thing--he want to help---BUT he really hasn't a clue as to what to do or say and thinks a cuddle will make me better! lol----hes really lost in this whole new world.

Many Many thanks if you can help boys!
XX

In Oz we are pretty well set-up now
with depression help centres all around town and out in the Countries.

Your man maybe suffering Himself!

If He is interested in helping himself,then send Him off to the local Library
for books by Steve Biddulph.

Ask him to google
http://www.eyeforfilm.co.uk/reviews.php?id=7833
and see what Men are doing for Real-Men Here in OZ.
I am Certain there will be groups happening in Good Old NZ

Invite Him to become a member here in
The Big Black Dog Message Board and Chat Room
and see what happens...

It is fairly comon to say,
nowdays with depression being so prolific
that one party of a coupled relationship
can draw the other party into experiencing depression also.

This can be injurous to the relationship.

We also need to know
as we grow and learn from our-own tussels with-in depression,
that we can be a huge drain on our Partners resoursefulness.

Watch-out for your Women
as well as yourself
Guys.

Go To Google and do a search for sites that deal with Depression.

Hey,

One of the things I did was I had worked through a couple of depression workbooks which you can by to better understand my depression.

My then partner was struggleing a little bit with the whole depression thing but tried her best to understand so I let her read my private workbooks which gave her an insight. You can order a copy of the book from: http://www.self-help.co.nz/shop/Depression/The+Depression+Workbook.html

Another thing you could do is have a joint doctors appointment (book a double appointment) and have your partner talk to the doc, ask questions and you can add your own two cents in.

Also see if there are any support groups, I know there are some support groups out there for partners of people with depression.

Hope this helps.

I Like being apart of this site.

so do I ferrit

ok, back into it.....
were cut out with a technical hitch,which paddy sorted out for me.
It were a Wholesome break,with much experience to be enjoyed!
Will be in Once a day
things going as planned!
cheers
gm

HI greasemonkey...hey are you a mechanic by trade?

That could be why you couldn't figure the technical hitch LOL ... no moving parts...

Good to see ya back GM

Was a liitle worried something might have gone bad for you.

lol, no,not mechanical,more ethereal.
I like what you wrote about Mylife;so many ppl throw their lives away ehh!
gm

mylife wrote:HI greasemonkey...hey are you a mechanic by trade?

That could be why you couldn't figure the technical hitch LOL ... no moving parts...

GR,
at the risk of making an echo,
I will reply again.
Seems the last one went astray?
All life is good where im seated gr
as Im learning about converting negative to positive
via meditation.
Its a Blast.
Ive made some exciting transformations to my understandings recently.
Life is Love
and dosnt need a love-object!
You are IT!
gm

Guerrilla Roach wrote:Good to see ya back GM

Was a liitle worried something might have gone bad for you.

so hows things now Angie?

and thanks gm

AngieBabe???
whats up?

Angie, are you there? how are you doing?

GM like the piccie!

mmm, check your medication if
you have the itches!
I get that with
tramadole hydrochloride
love

ie narcotics do this...and some drugs we take (given by Drs) are synthetics...
See the Ray Charles dvd on His LIFE!
he got really itchy
at times.
This picture was taken in the himalayan foothills,
1984 just before Babaji's mahasamadhi.
The Young devottee took a liking to me
and snucked me into
the inner circle.
lol

Great picture GM, ahhh... 1984 was soo.. long...ago...

your 5yrs younger than my partner!
Pukekos make good soup
only!lol

Iv'e never tried pukeko soup... I hear that roo's do to??

hahahaha

yeah 5 years isn't much.. hey gm don't let anyone have you guys on about the age difference,

my dad was 20 years older than my mum...he was 52 when I was born!!

nah!
no body dares when they see the love we muster!
Envy skulks away, back into the darkness
when we are about!
lol

Roo's are served-up in supermarkets nowdays.
Australians so Love their National Symbol
they eat it!

Have you tried RoadKill?

Ha-ha...are you really that scarey GM?? I think not...

some think so!
You must have your Head-Screwed ON!
lol

hey is that a portrait of your wifey?

Si!
tish She,
with lilsquares to enlarge Her from a pic I took
just before we married.
ageless she is