Re: The New Depression Thread.

by max17 Sun Mar 18, 2012 7:03 am

thank you Bruice.

Paddy or some one highr up than me Can someone please go and help Andrea to get into our group here.

by max17 Sun Mar 18, 2012 7:10 am

Paddy I love the honesty you have shown to us all. You have made me smile many times and have been their for many more of us. i have found a lot of very nice people here and in the other thread. I was asked to join a crochet group here in Hams where I live but I have beem stabbed in the back too many times to risk it again. I feel safe with my hubby and he and some family members are the only ones that I feel safe with. I thank you very much for starting this off so we can have somewhere else we can go to.

THANK YOU

by max17 Mon Mar 19, 2012 3:47 am

Oh where is every one tonight

by reetpetite Mon Mar 19, 2012 4:35 am

Hi Max I'm here. Not feeling great at the moment, how are you?

by max17 Mon Mar 19, 2012 4:55 am

Hi Reet. Had a real bad fall last night and landed on the side of my hand so it is hard to push the keys. Bit stressed out about everything else going on around me.

by brucie261 Mon Mar 19, 2012 5:32 am

Hey ladies!!
Max hun you poor thing! Makes it worse in the cold weather aswell aye!! my MIL had a fall a few weeks ago and today her wrist just got alot worse so she went and had an xray and it was broken! Worst part is her other wrist is in plaster after they rebroke that one and fixed it up again! She's not happy at all!! So go gently hun!!
WHat's up Reet??

by reetpetite Mon Mar 19, 2012 6:17 am

Steve asked me to go and see him so I did this morning thinking that he would be sober, but he wasn't and I felt quite scared of him. At one point because I refussed to give him what he wanted he told me to "f off". He says he loves me and keeps ringing me but I can't deal with someone like that. I was feeling sad about what is happening but dont' want someone in my life like that and I need to think about my kids too. The stupid thing is he wasn't drinking when we first met and he started taking me out for meals etc and started having drinks. If I'd known or if he'd said that he doesn't drink then I wouldn't have had a drink either. Feeling really bad that he has started drinking again because of me!

by brucie261 Mon Mar 19, 2012 6:34 am

Reet hun can I just say that you can't make anyone turn to drink who isn't wanting/thinking about it!
If he loved you he would know what you've been through with your drinking and know how much your kids and your study mean!
I'm here for you hun but please don't beat yourself up!! He's a grown man with no respect for you hun! You deserve to be treated like a princess!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There are men out there who will treat you the way you deserve!! queen

by reetpetite Mon Mar 19, 2012 7:04 am

Thanks Brucie

by brucie261 Mon Mar 19, 2012 7:06 am

You matter hun!!

by reetpetite Mon Mar 19, 2012 7:06 am

Brucie, sorry I don't mean to sound so short, just not feeling very talkative just now, but I appreciate your words, thank you Smile

by brucie261 Mon Mar 19, 2012 7:11 am

No prob hun!! Do you have something there like choc or a treat that you can chill out with? I feel like rubbish today and am in more pain then most days so am going to be naughty and have some cake heated up with chocolate ice cream!! I have had enough of being good on my gluten and dairy free diet! I need a night off!!!

by reetpetite Mon Mar 19, 2012 8:24 am

uummm.... sounds yum. No don't have anything here run out of money at the moment vet bills petrol costs etc.. I really have to watch the pennies as my credit card is getting full so roll on Wednesday shopping day!

by reetpetite Mon Mar 19, 2012 7:01 pm

Morning, have been up since 5.15am, didn't sleep too good so decided to get up. Off to uni shortly. With all these hassels I'm getting behind and need to some how find my focus again! I will be telling Steve today that I don' t want a relationship with him, I don't kneed someone in my life like that and neither do my kids. I will have to do it by text as I felt quite scared when I went to see him yesterday. Even wondering if I need to shift to a new place as I feel scared that he might turn up! I'm in a fairly cheep place at the moment, but a lot of the other houses around here are a bit dearer, will winz support me if I shift into a house that cost $30.00 more per week? The other thing is this house is a big 4 bedroom house and I only need a 3 bedroom place now since I no longer have a boarder. This place is also expensive to keep warm in the winter as there is no heating here and is open plan living. The lounge has a very high roof too so is a really bit place to keep warm. I'd like to move into something smaller and easier for me to manage on my own. But don't know if winz will support me!

I hope everyone else has a good day and not getting too much rain in your area. Keep warm, reet

by honeyb31 Mon Mar 19, 2012 7:04 pm

Good morning everyone hope yo all slept well I feel a little vomble like today not enough sleep my 22 month old keeps coming to see me in middle of night and then ends up in bed with us nothing like a foot in the face or butt most of night .Anyway Max I hope you are feeling better

by honeyb31 Mon Mar 19, 2012 7:05 pm

Hi reet I hope it all goes well for you today and thing settle down at home

by reetpetite Mon Mar 19, 2012 7:09 pm

honeyb31 wrote:Hi reet I hope it all goes well for you today and thing settle down at home

Thanks HoneyB. I hope you get a nana nap today with your little ratbag keeping you awake during the night, is very tiring I know Sleep

by brucie261 Tue Mar 20, 2012 5:12 am

Hey Reet thinking of you!!
Really hope you did it via txt message!! Please pop back in and let us know your ok!
Honeyb31 hope you got a chance to catch up on some sleep!! I was wide awake at 3.30am for some reason!
Have just done 9.5 hours at work and chilling a bit before I go sort dinner!
Weather here is rubbish but not too windy yet!

by max17 Tue Mar 20, 2012 7:05 am

Paddy are you here tonight. There is someone want to come into this site on the other thread. Could you please have a look and help because I am not clued up on all this. Thank you

by **Paddy** Tue Mar 20, 2012 7:21 am

Ha, I'm onto it, Thankee my friend. Actually, I was onto it yesterday, how good is that?

Nah not so good I know, 'cos she didn't see my post on the TM Thread, doh. But I tried and shall continue to be trying.

Paddykins. Wink

by max17 Tue Mar 20, 2012 7:48 am

hey I think it is some one else.

by reetpetite Tue Mar 20, 2012 8:03 am

brucie261 wrote:Hey Reet thinking of you!!
Really hope you did it via txt message!! Please pop back in and let us know your ok!
Honeyb31 hope you got a chance to catch up on some sleep!! I was wide awake at 3.30am for some reason!
Have just done 9.5 hours at work and chilling a bit before I go sort dinner!
Weather here is rubbish but not too windy yet!

Hi Brucie, I am doing ok thanks. Very exausted though so wont be long before I go to bed. I did txt him and he has been ringing on and off all afternoon but I dont' answer his calls. He's probably drunk himself into oblivium!! It's a shame, he seemed like a really nice guy when I first met him Sad

How has your day been? I imagine you are probably not far off going to bed too that is if you aren't there already!

Good night all, I hope everyone gets lots of Zzz's tonight, Sleep

reet

by brucie261 Tue Mar 20, 2012 8:08 am

Hey Reet glad you popped in to let me know you were doing ok!
Your probably not going to sleep to much if he keeps up his antics! As horrible as this sounds I'm glad it's over now before you had way too much invested in the relationship!! If he's this crazy now imagine what he would have been like later on!!
Big hugs hun it's not nice being there!! xoxo
I'm still going to be up for another few hours, just having dinner now and will do a few other things .

by earthangel4 Tue Mar 20, 2012 11:06 pm

Just had to reset my password,woohoo,so glad to be here.
EarthANGEL

by earthangel4 Tue Mar 20, 2012 11:08 pm

Each day is a big struggle for me,I am now leaving tm and coming in here,so glad to be in here and join you all
Angel hugs xxxooo

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