Here's a Chance

View previous topic View next topic Go down

Here's a Chance

Post by Paddy on Sat Jun 06, 2009 9:49 am

I've obviously upset a few good, well meaning folk here today (and knowing me, on many other occasions that I've not even noticed) - so here's ya chance. A Thread where you can post and tell me off, or whatever.

That people care so much about others, is one of the really good things about TBBD.

Go on then. I deserve it. Embarassed

PenitentPat.
avatar
Paddy
Moderator

Number of posts : 1607
Age : 57
Location : Rangitikei
Registration date : 2008-09-25

http://www.thebigblackdog.co.nz

Back to top Go down

YEEEEE--HOOOOOO

Post by angiebabe on Sat Jun 06, 2009 10:05 am

GO PADDY


Stick it TOO them!!! Twisted Evil .
Go Hard my friend---let them have it, real hard!!





Wink OH and when you are ready to give it to them, thanks? okay by me?.
Take your time! lol.
I love you
avatar
angiebabe

Number of posts : 91
Age : 47
Location : Nth Island
Registration date : 2008-08-20

Back to top Go down

Re: Here's a Chance

Post by Guest on Sat Jun 06, 2009 11:57 pm

1. Circle Complete: Vent - I wonder if i had been online would i have respected your wishes not replied? I don't have the answer...

But you have the right Pat like anyone else to vent and ask for no comments. Your reply was justified.

"tell you off' Nup sorry can't do.

(((((((Arohanui hugs to you pat)))))))

((((((Hugs)))))) to those who felt they couldn't be silent and leave a friend to suffer in silence - words of hope, words that they care......

Because of your Circle vent: I will not leave a comment, when asked not to.... a good reminder.

flower

Guest
Guest


Back to top Go down

Re: Here's a Chance

Post by Guest on Sun Jun 07, 2009 6:25 am

Paddy, I am going to shot straight from the hip here.

yeah it did brass me off,.. but can't tell you off as you are too brilliant. After reading that last post of yours I was angry at both myself and at you, and deleted my account.

It affected me so much doing that - it was like losing a best friend or cutting off a limb.

My husband even asked me if he had done some thing wrong (which he hadn't).

I should not have replied, I know. But I want to let you know I agreed with you and wanted to know how you get on in future with bearucratic shit that goes on.

But don't let that stop you from posting again to vent and i will not reply if asked not to.

Guest
Guest


Back to top Go down

Re: Here's a Chance

Post by Paddy on Sun Jun 07, 2009 8:35 am

Of course you can tell me off, thats why I started this Thread.

I know I upset people with how I wrote what I did.

I was so mired in self pity at this situation I'm in, that there really wasn't any room for more pity, or sympathy or whatever. From any source.

I understand myself well enough to know that over the last few days, had I read those comments that I know people who care, would make, it might have pushed me over the edge and into a space I don't intend to descend to again.

I needed to whinge and throw the toys out of the cot, and then I needed to slam the Nursery Door shut. With that situation left locked away on the other side of it for a few days.

Please note, I'm trying really hard not to use the S*rry word - not 'cos I'm not, but 'cos I don't know that I had or yet have the skills to cope in this situation in a better way.

So rather than saying I'm s*rry, I'll say that I am proud of myself for coping with the last few days in ways that did not include physical harm to myself. The ole brains taking a fair hammering, but. Rolling Eyes

PissedOrfPat scratch
avatar
Paddy
Moderator

Number of posts : 1607
Age : 57
Location : Rangitikei
Registration date : 2008-09-25

http://www.thebigblackdog.co.nz

Back to top Go down

Re: Here's a Chance

Post by Guest on Sun Jun 07, 2009 8:47 pm

OK POP (PissedoffPat)

We all need to whinge and throw the toys out of the cot..and we all behave like babies at some stage.

Lets have a clean slate flower

Guest
Guest


Back to top Go down

Re: Here's a Chance

Post by peterpam on Tue Jun 09, 2009 5:43 am

lol Paddy, I had to have a wee giggle at your'e other post (sorry). I did see it and thought, woe, not a good day for Pat and choose to back out very quietly sooo's you didn't see me. I did want to post, but thought better of it, lol, (thank god), but I can understand others just wanting to send you hugs. I am so proud of you for being able to vent that way, so hope you feel much better, especially now you have you're new chair

peterpam

Number of posts : 653
Location : christchurch
Registration date : 2008-10-26

Back to top Go down

Re: Here's a Chance

Post by Guest on Fri Jun 12, 2009 4:28 am

By the way I have never been called a 'good folk'.. No

not that I am aware of anyway, so if that was directed at me as part of the overall group, Paddy, thanks Very Happy

Guest
Guest


Back to top Go down

Re: Here's a Chance

Post by Sponsored content


Sponsored content


Back to top Go down

View previous topic View next topic Back to top


 
Permissions in this forum:
You cannot reply to topics in this forum