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Post by Guest Sun Apr 26, 2009 12:14 am

Ok, I have lost my life. It's gone and never coming back. I upset everyone I am around .. even people here... I am damaging my family.

My life is done. silent pale

Goodbye all, I think this will be my last post. My partner had a go at me last night for being on this ...

If I am still around, I might pop in from time to time but maybe better placed to face this one on my own. No one wants to bother...

This is my life, and now it has gone.

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Post by Guest Sun Apr 26, 2009 12:58 am

i'm crashing... lower than ever before.

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Post by Guest Sun Apr 26, 2009 1:35 am

Hey Mylife,

SOunds like your partner isn't very understanding of your health issues. We all need help and support and that is what this website is about. HAve you explained to him that the help and support you get from here goes wider than just mental health help and support into areas such as the weight loss thread, social support via the chatroom etc.

If you sit down with him and maybe explain how important this site is to you hopefully he may understand.

Hope you are ok.

Roswell

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Post by Guest Sun Apr 26, 2009 3:08 am

Hey My Life

In this world that surrounds us
We sometimes break down and fall
Those who stand above us
Can make us seem so small

We tremble under the weight
Of the problems that hold us down
And when we start to collapse
There seems to be no one around

We try to fight in this world
That always seems to fight back
Sometimes we’re not strong enough though
There are too many things we lack

We’ll hide away in corners
Put upon ourselves pain
But there’s no escape from this life
We all must suffer the same

But although we may struggle
And yes we all do fall
Here on TBBD we will stand by your side
We'll stay with you through it all

And if you start to tremble
Or even break down
and need a shoulder to cry on
We will always be around

We all have our faults
Our up and are downs
We cant always smile all the time
Everyone has to frown

No, no ones perfect
And no one is the same
We’re in this world together
We all play the same game

If we stick together
No matter what's to come
With a little faith and hope
Anything can be done

We all get those bad times
Each and every one of us
But I promise it will get better
Just don’t you give up

But when you feel like you want to
Please just remember this
You can die at any time
But it takes a strong person to live

Poem from Internet - unknown - changed it a little.

DON"T GIVE UP MY LIFE..... sounds to me you need support - not a husband that controls you. Be strong, know your not alone. Sounds like you need some help..... do you have support people in the mental health field? If not can I suggest before you give up that you go to your GP.

P.S You have a wonderful sense of humour..... you can do this!

HUGS
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Post by Guest Sun Apr 26, 2009 5:36 am

partner doesn't even know if there is something wrong with me...and to be truthful I don't know either as I have never had it confirmed. He is really mystified by my behavour. Just don't want to tell him how i feel as ............ well, I just don't

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Post by Guest Sun Apr 26, 2009 6:22 am

Hi there
Glad you have come back online.... you have said you feel depressed. Maybe a check up is all that is needed? No expert here, but going by your recent post you sound like you are are searching for help. Giving the impression that your life is over... when one says that especially on a site such as this personally i think suicide - maybe i was wrong in my assumption.. my apologies if so. I wish you all the best, read the poem and if it is help you seek, 'honest i am not coping want out' , then you need to discuss this with your husband and seek help.

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Post by Guest Sun Apr 26, 2009 9:36 am

I have often thought about the s word and how to do it...have attempted it several times..can't be bothered now, life is short, and in my life it needs to be.....

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Post by Guest Sun Apr 26, 2009 3:57 pm

(((( lifey )))) hang in there. it WILL get better.

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Post by Guerrilla Roach Sun Apr 26, 2009 9:15 pm

The best authority on you is you. If you feel that something is so with yourself, such as having a low mood, then chances are there is something causing it. There are many possible causes that can come from a multitude of different places, but whatever the cause, your experience is most important of all. The idea that one needs a health professional to label something in order to make it real, seriously detracts from that lived experience and simply is not so.

I suggest that you seek out the advice of your doctor, there are several options that might help with your low moods. There is also plenty written on the subject on this site. I also think you might find reading through my earlier posts useful, as well as, Greasemonkeys posts & many others besides. Just click on our names and then click on the blue word 'posts' and all our posts will come up. I hope that these ideas help. Feel free to PM me if you'd like.

Take care flower
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Post by Guest Mon Apr 27, 2009 12:49 am

I don't want drugs.

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Post by Guerrilla Roach Mon Apr 27, 2009 1:22 am

Drugs are only one option among many. I myself went the non medication route. Therapy, positive thinking, activities, and so on, all provide avenues for growth and stability. Seeking help is the important thing.
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Post by Guest Mon Apr 27, 2009 2:39 am

I am sure they would just drugg me up tho.... someone as useless as i am..

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Post by Guest Fri Jun 12, 2009 9:12 pm

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