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Re: Getting Older

Post by Guest on Sun Jun 07, 2009 6:26 pm

sorry Gm to lead you to think my mother had passed.

It is just that i remember those words before the breakdown, coping with the stresses and balancing act of life in general, teaching, parenting, wife, etc.... emotions all over the place Smile. She spoke those words, and recall getting to a point in life and going yes you where right mum, it does get easier.

Then wham! Break-down - Lost too much -death of a beautiful friend, marriage ended etc.... i have said this somewhere before, quite a list GM.

Hence my 'older comment'. In reply to wiser?
I question experiencing this horrible 3 yr journey is it for a reason? Always thought along those lines until now. Growing up i got wiser... experiencing this - boy tipped me over. My belief in the universe, god, and faith questioned.

Wiser? No, better person for going through this No,

Interpretation is sometimes difficult.... "Am I leading you?" ummmm no Smile I am lost.

But i understand what you mean. Older, wiser....a tick tock time thing.....GM:)
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Post by greasemonkey on Mon Jun 08, 2009 2:20 am

you are already complete
it has been shown to You at those moments when you were least expecting.
Remember?
We cant deny spaces of grace that occur
which seem to balance out the pain having lost in Life
and in Growing up.

Im glad your Mother is still in the Flesh.
You can share these things you're learning,
and thus bring a smile to Her Face!

One must remember,
Life is NOT what we are lead to Believe it is!
Life is what is driving us to try-out all the desires we have created,
awaiting full expression in the World.

When One Life-Time is over
the brain is scrambled in preparation for the next Life,another GO!
One dosnt have to Physically-Die to
accept new life with-in the one we already have!
There is much in Life and (ego) deaths for us to learn from.

Breakdowns are simply the re-scrambling for a life of control
which the ego seeks,in an effort to make itself important.


Beneath what we think we are is the Mystical
which we were born into,
much like our Mums and Dads did
when they were Borned.
Nothing has changed.

In time
the truth dawns.
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Post by Guest on Fri Jun 12, 2009 6:24 am

I guess...

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Post by greasemonkey on Fri Jun 12, 2009 7:50 am

11. Make peace with your past
so it won't screw up the present.

if we have no-one to speak openly too,
best seek therapy.
true friends are precious

ps,Mighty fine Columns
in bluedress there,ML.
beats my stairway to no-where
anyday!

lol
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Post by Guest on Fri Jun 12, 2009 9:23 pm

LOL GM sometimes i love your humour

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Post by greasemonkey on Sat Jun 20, 2009 12:30 pm

12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

This I realised
at the pit of depression sometime back.
Not only did it soften me
but it bought the hurt-out
and they could look at me again.

Pain is better out than in.

Left in,
dreams of a Certain Nature become concious during sleep.
Nightmares are formed this Way!
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Post by Guest on Sun Jun 21, 2009 8:01 pm

My children always seem to see me crying, and they have learnt compassion from it.

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Post by greasemonkey on Mon Jun 22, 2009 4:31 am

you are female?
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Post by peterpam on Mon Jun 22, 2009 9:01 am

Gm, I don't think it matters what gender you are, does it?. Lets show our children, that no matter what gender we are, we all have feelings. By keeping our feelings in, we teach our children to do the same. Crying does not show weakness, it shows strenght.

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Post by greasemonkey on Tue Jun 23, 2009 12:56 am

[quote="peterpam"]Gm, I don't think it matters what gender you are, does it?. Lets show our children, that no matter what gender we are, we all have feelings. By keeping our feelings in, we teach our children to do the same. Crying does not show weakness, it shows strenght.[/quote]

Tell a warrior that
and He will self destruct!
There is lots to learn about Men.
I went to a Suicide-Seminar Here.......many years back.
there were two Men-healers in amonst a group of 280 Women-healers.
Women make good healers for us Men-folk,
but Men also make good helpers for men.
Read-up on Biddulphs stuffing.

To me,it matters-not what sex i am
as i know myself.


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Post by peterpam on Tue Jun 23, 2009 7:10 am

Gm isn't that interesting 2-280, wow. I am fortunate to have just as many male friends as I do female and my male freinds would be by far more enlightening. Men tell me how it is, women tell me what they think I want to hear

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Post by Guest on Tue Jun 23, 2009 9:13 am

well yes that could be gender differences, although I have learnt not to say what i think others want to hear.

the truth is best,

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