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Re: Getting Older
sorry Gm to lead you to think my mother had passed.
It is just that i remember those words before the breakdown, coping with the stresses and balancing act of life in general, teaching, parenting, wife, etc.... emotions all over the place . She spoke those words, and recall getting to a point in life and going yes you where right mum, it does get easier.
Then wham! Break-down - Lost too much -death of a beautiful friend, marriage ended etc.... i have said this somewhere before, quite a list GM.
Hence my 'older comment'. In reply to wiser?
I question experiencing this horrible 3 yr journey is it for a reason? Always thought along those lines until now. Growing up i got wiser... experiencing this - boy tipped me over. My belief in the universe, god, and faith questioned.
Wiser? No, better person for going through this No,
Interpretation is sometimes difficult.... "Am I leading you?" ummmm no I am lost.
But i understand what you mean. Older, wiser....a tick tock time thing.....GM:)
It is just that i remember those words before the breakdown, coping with the stresses and balancing act of life in general, teaching, parenting, wife, etc.... emotions all over the place . She spoke those words, and recall getting to a point in life and going yes you where right mum, it does get easier.
Then wham! Break-down - Lost too much -death of a beautiful friend, marriage ended etc.... i have said this somewhere before, quite a list GM.
Hence my 'older comment'. In reply to wiser?
I question experiencing this horrible 3 yr journey is it for a reason? Always thought along those lines until now. Growing up i got wiser... experiencing this - boy tipped me over. My belief in the universe, god, and faith questioned.
Wiser? No, better person for going through this No,
Interpretation is sometimes difficult.... "Am I leading you?" ummmm no I am lost.
But i understand what you mean. Older, wiser....a tick tock time thing.....GM:)
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Re: Getting Older
you are already complete
it has been shown to You at those moments when you were least expecting.
Remember?
We cant deny spaces of grace that occur
which seem to balance out the pain having lost in Life
and in Growing up.
Im glad your Mother is still in the Flesh.
You can share these things you're learning,
and thus bring a smile to Her Face!
One must remember,
Life is NOT what we are lead to Believe it is!
Life is what is driving us to try-out all the desires we have created,
awaiting full expression in the World.
When One Life-Time is over
the brain is scrambled in preparation for the next Life,another GO!
One dosnt have to Physically-Die to
accept new life with-in the one we already have!
There is much in Life and (ego) deaths for us to learn from.
Breakdowns are simply the re-scrambling for a life of control
which the ego seeks,in an effort to make itself important.
Beneath what we think we are is the Mystical
which we were born into,
much like our Mums and Dads did
when they were Borned.
Nothing has changed.
In time
the truth dawns.
it has been shown to You at those moments when you were least expecting.
Remember?
We cant deny spaces of grace that occur
which seem to balance out the pain having lost in Life
and in Growing up.
Im glad your Mother is still in the Flesh.
You can share these things you're learning,
and thus bring a smile to Her Face!
One must remember,
Life is NOT what we are lead to Believe it is!
Life is what is driving us to try-out all the desires we have created,
awaiting full expression in the World.
When One Life-Time is over
the brain is scrambled in preparation for the next Life,another GO!
One dosnt have to Physically-Die to
accept new life with-in the one we already have!
There is much in Life and (ego) deaths for us to learn from.
Breakdowns are simply the re-scrambling for a life of control
which the ego seeks,in an effort to make itself important.
Beneath what we think we are is the Mystical
which we were born into,
much like our Mums and Dads did
when they were Borned.
Nothing has changed.
In time
the truth dawns.
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Re: Getting Older
11. Make peace with your past
so it won't screw up the present.
if we have no-one to speak openly too,
best seek therapy.
true friends are precious
ps,Mighty fine Columns
in bluedress there,ML.
beats my stairway to no-where
anyday!
lol
so it won't screw up the present.
if we have no-one to speak openly too,
best seek therapy.
true friends are precious
ps,Mighty fine Columns
in bluedress there,ML.
beats my stairway to no-where
anyday!
lol
greasemonkey- Number of posts : 940
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12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
This I realised
at the pit of depression sometime back.
Not only did it soften me
but it bought the hurt-out
and they could look at me again.
Pain is better out than in.
Left in,
dreams of a Certain Nature become concious during sleep.
Nightmares are formed this Way!
This I realised
at the pit of depression sometime back.
Not only did it soften me
but it bought the hurt-out
and they could look at me again.
Pain is better out than in.
Left in,
dreams of a Certain Nature become concious during sleep.
Nightmares are formed this Way!
greasemonkey- Number of posts : 940
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Re: Getting Older
My children always seem to see me crying, and they have learnt compassion from it.
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you are female?
greasemonkey- Number of posts : 940
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Gm, I don't think it matters what gender you are, does it?. Lets show our children, that no matter what gender we are, we all have feelings. By keeping our feelings in, we teach our children to do the same. Crying does not show weakness, it shows strenght.
peterpam- Number of posts : 653
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Re: Getting Older
[quote="peterpam"]Gm, I don't think it matters what gender you are, does it?. Lets show our children, that no matter what gender we are, we all have feelings. By keeping our feelings in, we teach our children to do the same. Crying does not show weakness, it shows strenght.[/quote]
Tell a warrior that
and He will self destruct!
There is lots to learn about Men.
I went to a Suicide-Seminar Here.......many years back.
there were two Men-healers in amonst a group of 280 Women-healers.
Women make good healers for us Men-folk,
but Men also make good helpers for men.
Read-up on Biddulphs stuffing.
To me,it matters-not what sex i am
as i know myself.
Tell a warrior that
and He will self destruct!
There is lots to learn about Men.
I went to a Suicide-Seminar Here.......many years back.
there were two Men-healers in amonst a group of 280 Women-healers.
Women make good healers for us Men-folk,
but Men also make good helpers for men.
Read-up on Biddulphs stuffing.
To me,it matters-not what sex i am
as i know myself.
Last edited by greasemonkey on Tue Jun 23, 2009 12:58 am; edited 1 time in total (Reason for editing : green paint)
greasemonkey- Number of posts : 940
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Re: Getting Older
Gm isn't that interesting 2-280, wow. I am fortunate to have just as many male friends as I do female and my male freinds would be by far more enlightening. Men tell me how it is, women tell me what they think I want to hear
peterpam- Number of posts : 653
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Re: Getting Older
well yes that could be gender differences, although I have learnt not to say what i think others want to hear.
the truth is best,
the truth is best,
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