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Post by Newbie on Fri Aug 28, 2009 8:58 am

I promise... you guys are helping me I would love to return the favour Surprised
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Post by Guest on Fri Aug 28, 2009 9:03 am

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Post by peterpam on Fri Aug 28, 2009 9:23 am

Taking the night off, just may be best for the moment. Get some sleep, if you can and look it all again in the morning. It can be very exhausting so, tonight look after you. Sending big hugs. Another thing to remember is, she is not mad with you, she is mad with herself.

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Post by peterpam on Fri Aug 28, 2009 9:25 am

Newbie, don't worry toooo much, she is OK, she is with her parents, they will take care of her for now. Take care

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Post by peterpam on Sat Aug 29, 2009 5:18 am

Hi Newbie, how are you doing today??.

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Post by Newbie on Sat Aug 29, 2009 6:44 am

Hi Guys - I have the the terrible duty to inform you that Juliet passed away today after a successful suicide attempt last night.
I'm sorry that I couldn't give you better news after all of your positive words.
Dena
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Post by Guest on Sat Aug 29, 2009 6:50 am

oh no.... Dena I am so sorry to hear that.

Words fail me.

Don't blame yourself ok? and look after yourself, Please pm me if you need to chat...

I am so very sorry to hear that.

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Post by peterpam on Sat Aug 29, 2009 6:56 am

Oh Dena, I am so so sorry hun. I don't know what else to say that is going to help at the moment. I have tears. Please at least know that we are here for you, if and when you need. Huge huge hugs to you and your family.

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Post by Guest on Sat Aug 29, 2009 6:57 am

I am so sorry for your loss.
Our thoughts are with you in this tough time

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Post by logical-cents on Sat Aug 29, 2009 8:59 am

Sorry to hear about your loss. Take care of yourself. Thinking of you.
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Post by britelite on Sat Aug 29, 2009 9:06 am

hugs hugs and hugs Newbie

that is terrible shocking news...I thank you for sharing this with us...as we honestly care about and for each other...please know 100% that all the condolances and thoughts put here for you are truely heartfelt.

remeber we are here...if you ever need to talk...or vent...whatever...we welcome it with open arms

be kind to yourself, britey
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Post by daze7 on Sat Aug 29, 2009 9:08 am

Hello Dena ...... So very, very sorry to read your news. What a terrible shock that must have been for you, and Juliet's family.

My heart goes out to you, and these next few days will be so hard to bear. Please keep coming in here if that is a helpful thing for you to do.

I realise that it is very early days yet but please remember there are support groups for people who are bereaved by suicide.

Huge, huge hugs for you .......... Daze
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Post by Guest on Sat Aug 29, 2009 9:15 am

My heart goes out to you Dena. No words to express.

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Post by Admin (Paddy) on Sat Aug 29, 2009 9:23 am

Dena,

I am sure that I speak for everyone here in our TBBD Family, in saying how very sorry and sad we are that Juliet made the choice she did and took her life.

Please, if there is anything that I or any one or all of us can do to assist you, Juliet's family and friends or whoever - just let me or us know. Thank You, for telling us.

Be very gentle with you please Dena, because you are not responsible for the choice which Juliet made.

Stay safe, Dena and yeah, our deepest condolences, sweetheart. flower

I'm sorry that my words are so inadequate, Dena.

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Post by Floss on Sat Aug 29, 2009 9:26 am

I cant possibly begin to imagine how or what you are feeling, but know that my thoughts are with you

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Post by peterpam on Sat Aug 29, 2009 9:33 pm

After this very sad news last evening, I imagine many of you were feeling as I was, a little sad sooo, this morning I wanted to just give everyone a huge big group hug, so come on everyone cuddle up together in cyber space and feel my arms all around you. What a wonderful careing lot you are and I hope today gets alittle brighter for everyone, especially Dena. Love to you Dena, thinking about you.

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Post by Newbie on Sat Aug 29, 2009 10:39 pm

Thanks for all the messages, this is what I'm using for coping at the moment, words I believe Juliet would be saying:
I'm Free
Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free
I'm following the path God laid for me
I took his hand when I heard Him call
I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day
To laugh, to love, to work or play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way.
I found that place at the close of the day.
If my parting has left a void
Then fill it with remembered joy.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss.
Ah yes, these things I too, will miss.
Be not burdened with times of sorrow.
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.
My life's been full, I savored much.
Good friends, good times, a loved one's touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all to brief;
Don't lengthen it now with undue grief.
Lift up your heart and share with me
God wanted me now, He set me free.
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Post by Guest on Sat Aug 29, 2009 10:55 pm

hang onto those words Dena,

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Post by peterpam on Sun Aug 30, 2009 7:45 am

Hi again Dena, beautiful words, for a beautiful lady (Juliet). I hope you have lots of support from family and freinds. I also hope that you may consider us as freinds, we may not be able to give you physical hugs, but know that many of us are sending loving vibes your way. Holds arms out, I give really good hugs.

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Post by Guest on Sun Aug 30, 2009 9:33 pm

I hope you are holding up ok, Dena,

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Post by Newbie on Sun Aug 30, 2009 9:40 pm

Funeral Director coming over this morning - I have talked to Juliet's family and we feel strongly that we must celebrate her passing and be positive.
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Post by Guest on Sun Aug 30, 2009 9:42 pm

Yes please do, she would have wanted that ay.

I have been thinking of you alot over the past few days. Please look after you.

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Post by peterpam on Sun Aug 30, 2009 10:21 pm

My thoughts are with you Dena

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Post by Guest on Sun Aug 30, 2009 11:30 pm

She is at peace now and celebrating who she was and what her life meant to all of you will hopefully give you and her family a certain peace too. Thinking of you.

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Post by Newbie on Mon Aug 31, 2009 8:05 am

Thanks guys - overwhelmed with texts, calls, visitors and hopefully this will make me very tired.... to sleep.
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