Here's a Chance

I've obviously upset a few good, well meaning folk here today (and knowing me, on many other occasions that I've not even noticed) - so here's ya chance. A Thread where you can post and tell me off, or whatever.

That people care so much about others, is one of the really good things about TBBD.

Go on then. I deserve it.

PenitentPat.

GO PADDY


Stick it TOO them!!! .
Go Hard my friend---let them have it, real hard!!





OH and when you are ready to give it to them, thanks? okay by me?.
Take your time! lol.

1. Circle Complete: Vent - I wonder if i had been online would i have respected your wishes not replied? I don't have the answer...

But you have the right Pat like anyone else to vent and ask for no comments. Your reply was justified.

"tell you off' Nup sorry can't do.

(((((((Arohanui hugs to you pat)))))))

((((((Hugs)))))) to those who felt they couldn't be silent and leave a friend to suffer in silence - words of hope, words that they care......

Because of your Circle vent: I will not leave a comment, when asked not to.... a good reminder.

Paddy, I am going to shot straight from the hip here.

yeah it did brass me off,.. but can't tell you off as you are too brilliant. After reading that last post of yours I was angry at both myself and at you, and deleted my account.

It affected me so much doing that - it was like losing a best friend or cutting off a limb.

My husband even asked me if he had done some thing wrong (which he hadn't).

I should not have replied, I know. But I want to let you know I agreed with you and wanted to know how you get on in future with bearucratic shit that goes on.

But don't let that stop you from posting again to vent and i will not reply if asked not to.

Of course you can tell me off, thats why I started this Thread.

I know I upset people with how I wrote what I did.

I was so mired in self pity at this situation I'm in, that there really wasn't any room for more pity, or sympathy or whatever. From any source.

I understand myself well enough to know that over the last few days, had I read those comments that I know people who care, would make, it might have pushed me over the edge and into a space I don't intend to descend to again.

I needed to whinge and throw the toys out of the cot, and then I needed to slam the Nursery Door shut. With that situation left locked away on the other side of it for a few days.

Please note, I'm trying really hard not to use the S*rry word - not 'cos I'm not, but 'cos I don't know that I had or yet have the skills to cope in this situation in a better way.

So rather than saying I'm s*rry, I'll say that I am proud of myself for coping with the last few days in ways that did not include physical harm to myself. The ole brains taking a fair hammering, but.

PissedOrfPat

OK POP (PissedoffPat)

We all need to whinge and throw the toys out of the cot..and we all behave like babies at some stage.

Lets have a clean slate

lol Paddy, I had to have a wee giggle at your'e other post (sorry). I did see it and thought, woe, not a good day for Pat and choose to back out very quietly sooo's you didn't see me. I did want to post, but thought better of it, lol, (thank god), but I can understand others just wanting to send you hugs. I am so proud of you for being able to vent that way, so hope you feel much better, especially now you have you're new chair

By the way I have never been called a 'good folk'..

not that I am aware of anyway, so if that was directed at me as part of the overall group, Paddy, thanks