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FOR FUCKS SAKE

Post by lil_miss_haley on Fri Apr 17, 2009 2:54 am

Im so fucking angry, I hardly ever get mad but this shit just winds me up.

Ok for my bday one of my 'suposed' best mates couldnt come to my party. She has a 1yr old and her and her partner have no money. So I said to her, I'll give you some gas money or get a ride with one of our friends, partner can always look after kiddy, as has happened in the past. She says no. I was ment to come see her morning of my bday, she said no as I had other friend with me and her kid would throw a tantie. She said leave friend at mine and I said no and got kinda pissed off with her. So I was in a bad mood anyways. Then we had a fight over txt over her not coming to my 21st, I said Im not txting you anymore about it, I was in tears. She kept sending me horrible txts. So I haven't talked to her since as I don't want to deal with it.

So she msgs me today saying 'so are you just not going to talk to me again'. I emailed her back with this.

'Im not going to 'just not talk to you again'. I don't know where I stand with you atm. I was pretty gutted about how things went on my bday and about my party, since I considered you one of my best mates. I admit I should have asked about Anna, but the rest of what happened after that? That was rude, and to tell you the truth, ruined my morning.
I just thought it was best to keep some distance till we both weren't so pissed off about it.
So where do you want to go from here? Its pretty stupid to end a friendship over something so trivial, but neither of us need that kinda crap atm.
Haley x"

Next thing I get this email back, and it just made me sooo mad (seriously you can barely understand it)

"i no i was trying to explain it to you and you got pissed off haley i did tell you i codnt come to your party we still have no money and now no cars mines deemed undrivable $500 to fix i asked you if anna cod wait at urs and u were like i cant ditch her so im not coming so i was like sweet then watever ayal wud have screamed at anna and we wouldnt have got wax done she clings to me with new ppl its a hard stage im sorry about ur 21st but its not like i didnt cum and went elsewea i sat at home and went to work it was gay as but i also codnt ditch dean at home and go out cuz that not fair either and he gave up a nyt out cuz of no money so itd be sad of me to go off with kelly to ur birthday and leave him with ayla i no wat happened was rude but so were you you were in a mood and offended me trying to say u did ur best to get me to go i no u did and u offered money but honestly if u saw our finances ud realise how bad it is if i had even 25 bux extra theas about 2 bills to put it on im over it the not speaking we were both in the wrong but u really overreacted to me not coming i had a good reason i did want to be thea but i codnt and im sorry i have to go get rerady for work "

So I sent her back this

'Ok I said sorry for the Anna thing, I did over react there. I don't have a kid, I don't understand these things. Now how did I offend you saying I was trying to do my best to get you there? I was! I just wanted you there. And its rude to go and leave Ayla with Dean? You've done it before and he's done it to you before.

Its not my fault you have no money. You can't take that out on me. It definitly sux yes, and its not your fault, but its not my fault either. I was just offering you a way to get up there, and alcohol if you wanted to drink because thats what friends do. However the txts turned nasty, I said I didnt want to talk about it and stopped txting, you still kept txting me horrible txts. Thats NOT what friends do.

I don't know where to go from here."

I'm just trying to deal with this without being pathetic, but really, she just makes me so pissed off! Shes one of these people that thinks the world revolves around her. ARGH!!!!!
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Re: FOR FUCKS SAKE

Post by Guest on Sun May 03, 2009 2:18 am

Hope youv'e had a better time lately, Surprised

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