well I know I'm really not

really meant to be here, but thought I might sneak in and see what exciting stuff happens here. Backs out quietly, as you were guys. So sorry just had to do it, never been one to behave by the rules, hehe.

Shhhh, its not exactly 'Hold your beath stuff', is it? Ah well, one day, maybe.

I'm saying nothing Pat, lol, my lips are sealed. Thanks for letting me visit.

when we dont peek,
we miss out on heaps...ehhh!

we must peep to see if there is any truth in the saying,
"curiosity killed the cat".

It is the dying of the cats ego
which exposes the spiritual realms
to the seekers,
as everyone wants to be eternally Young ehh!

Uh huh, true as, but I'm not here, you haven't seen me ok. Sneaks out very quietly, so as not to be noticed.

shhh..I saw you...

Well ok, maybe I was here, but I promise I didn't read anything. You guys rock, honestly

hehehehe ...makes me feel like a naughty llittle school girl!!

Guest wrote:hehehehe ...makes me feel like a naughty llittle school girl!!

lifts dress to check!

I dont know why Men would come in here
for privacy reasons.
Sometimes i answer new-posts off the Home Page
and find myself in the Womens Underwear Department.
These times i post unawarely and then
then make apologies.....
but it dosnt seem
make a differance.

Whats a Man anyway
but an inside out-WoMan.
Whats a WoMan anyway
but an inside out Man.

Soul hasnt GENDER
only Mind has.

Paddy,

Shut-up Shop
all the mens secretes are out
and the woMan has the POWER.

Unknowingly she had the Power in the first place,
and borned us Blokes through elastic Portals,
Conception still a mystery to most.
But what a way to go Home
the way we came.

Next time,
I'l pack a Lunch for the Journey
as getting lost is a buggar
ehh!

Whats a Man anyway
but an inside out-WoMan.
Whats a WoMan anyway
but an inside out Man.


greasemonkey, I like that!

mylife wrote:Whats a Man anyway
but an inside out-WoMan.
Whats a WoMan anyway
but an inside out Man.


greasemonkey, I like that!

that,
reminds me,
Ive slipped up again....
I owe a Post to peterpam.

goes to find old writings done speeding up the Kaikoura Coastline
by train.

well then, off you go, go do what you need to

Awww thanks gm, I feel special, well not really, but, lol. Actually just read that post and I thought it was very cool.
I'm thinking how funny it is to just sneak over to the other side so to speak.
I have put a great deal of thought into this AND, my personal opinion, (for all its worth) is. I dont have anything to say that I would be concerned as to which gender reads it. However, maybe as TBBD grows, both the mens and ladies room may work, but there would need to be some way that you could stop the other gender entering, cos Paddy you know we are going to wonder.

no matter,
curiosity Kills the Kat!

Thank you for sharing your special-ness here,
in the male dormitory!

It makes no differance to a Soul
whether or not One is Male or Female
once one becomes Fully-Concious
of themself,aye!

Wounded women need to be amounst enlightened ppl
of the same gender,just as wounded warriors need to be.
Sooner or Later
the Doors will become locked between the rooms here,
especially between the Ladies and the Gents.

Man I am so nosey, I should have been killed through curiosity alonnnnggg time ago lol

youre a CAT!
They have nine lives.....

Do you suppose men would want to post intimate-things about their Life in this Here Mens Room,
if they knew women were also posting here?
ie,not all Men are unaware.

Some Men are so embittered to have lost inLove with-in relationship,that they are afraid to OPEN-up around Womb-men.
Some Men feel the Need to Keep it inside
and work from there.

Its a Long painful process
when one cannot trust again.

Same or WoMen.

Ok....I'll back out now ***** quietly slips out of the mens room *** it's been fun

it is FUN!

Being together with everyone is delightfull!
But paddy maybe started this Mens-Debt for Men
because Men need men to heal
before they can face again 'Women-folk'
without having their Luggage
stiffling the flow.

Men want to Love
also.

GM I wish I could come up with an idea that would work, but i can't. I was thinking if you stated private in your title, that, that would work for me but maybe not for everyone and I understand that. Maybe both the mens and ladies rooms do need to be locked, maybe that is the only way these two sites may work. Hell, I am an open book, so I dont care who reads, but I understand not everyone is in the same space.

peterpam wrote:GM I wish I could come up with an idea that would work, but i can't. I was thinking if you stated private in your title, that, that would work for me but maybe not for everyone and I understand that. Maybe both the mens and ladies rooms do need to be locked, maybe that is the only way these two sites may work. Hell, I am an open book, so I dont care who reads, but I understand not everyone is in the same space.

Me too!
Ive always thought
the Womans-Space should be locked only for women to USE!

Ive accidently found myself posting in-there
when i 've come in from 'Most Recent Posts'!
Now,I am more aware
I hardly ever go astray!
lol

This seems as good a place as any to ask this question - Is the 'Ladies Room' space here at TBBD working OK?

I um, don't often visit it, 'cos I'm um, not a Lady. But I see there are some nosey one's in here (just teasing, girls) so I thought I'd take the opportunity to ask.

I'm relaxed about this particular space not doing much at the moment. Its here and its less trouble to leave it than it is to delete it.

Pat.

Pat, honestly, I think there is a need for both womens and mens space. OK, I personally very sledom visit the ladies room, would far rather hang out here lol, but I can see the need for privacy for some. Can you lock the sites, even as a trial, to see if more men or woman for that matter, would share more???

Since this has become the defacto 'Gender-General' Space ('n that's all good ) I thought I might as well say this here.

The Hosts of this place, Forumotion, reckon there is no easy way to set 'Gender' speficic rooms with any real control over who visits them.

The only way would be for me to set up a Group called 'Ladies' or some such, and then go through each individual Membership via the Admin Control Panel and set each up as having 'permissions' to Post in that group or not. And I really can't be bothered doing that, sorry.

I'm not paid enough, the hours suck and I have to make my own coffee. Oh, and the HQ of TBBD is a pitiful little town that doesn't even seem to sell ping pong balls for cats to play with. How useless is that?

So the upshot is;
its too hard, and
I'm too lazy, and
we'll all just have to try 'n make do with things as they are 'cos the only other option is to remove both spaces and I don't intend doing that. Thanks,

Pat.

Oh man, you have to make own coffee!!! well that suxs
Maybe then the responsibilty/ acountabitly starts with us. I can see that you have done a fantastic job here Pat, setting up spaces for everyone to post, soooo I for one am no longer going to drift across into the mens room any more, I am going to show the men in this forum some respect and privacy. I can see that there would be times when it would be helpful to have a private space, ie. if your otherhalf was posting, it could be difficult to post as well. There are many other places I can post. I am not even going to peek.