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When You and the man or woman you love also suffers from depression

Post by Gabriell on Tue Feb 16, 2010 8:28 pm

We have always been able to talk honestly and openly about everything. The good times and the bad, but sometimes our bad days coincide and when that happens we have learned to to be supportive and respect where each other is at. My darling and I had planned to see each other today but we are both off key, I am feeling weepy and he had a bad night sleep. So we are having down time in our alternative caves today. Sad
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Post by becks on Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:20 am

Hi Gabriell it sounds like you and your partner have a healthy relationship and are good at looking after yourselves and one another. Smile I'm sorry to hear that you had a bad day today and felt weepy. I hope that tomorrow is a better day for you.
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Post by Westdude on Wed Feb 17, 2010 11:33 am

Hi sweety ! hope our chat tonight has helped change your day ?. A thing I find that helps me and may help people here is to rearrange a room now and then or just a revamp to create a positive change in your life that you can create and control ?. Cool
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Post by Gabriell on Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:22 pm

Your voice was the next best thing to actually being here. The plans we were making to revamp my place lifted me right up. Thanks hon,
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Post by Guest on Sun Apr 11, 2010 6:36 pm

We are in the same situation at the moment. My husband is severelly depressed due to some family news. I think I am doing ok at the moment but need to have my own contingency plan in case I am not doing so well and he is not doing so well.

You see we have opposite ways of coping with this. He wants to be closer and moddy coddle, whereas I prefer to be left to my own devices.

A change would be good, but at the moment we are concentrating on cleaning up our place (Boys shit everywhere - can't step on the floor for lego arrgghh!)

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Post by Worried on Sat Apr 17, 2010 10:25 am

When i'm down i need lots of TLC when he is down he is grumpy, snappy, moody and wants to be left alone..

Both good=fun, happy times
both down=horrible horrible household
me down + himself good=me getting TLC, care attention etc that i need
himself down +me good=me getting down as i'm worried about himself

Conclusion:
Hoping himself has the same amount or more 'good' time then me! Very Happy
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Post by Guest on Wed Sep 08, 2010 11:19 pm

My wife has suffered from Depression & Bi Polar for along time and I have been with her 5 years and have helped her thru Good & Bad Times.

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