Fed Up

Had enough of everything, don't know how to deal with things and am on the verge of giving up and giving in.

Why??

A guy I've known for near on 6 years, who has always been there for me, who has always promised me that he would never do anything to hurt me, has hurt me. He lead me to believe that there could be something between us (I've always had feelings for him and he says he has for me too) and then I find out that he has a partner and a baby that he never bothered to tell me about. Now he won't reply to my texts.

Another guy who I was friends with is now sorta threatening me, but nothing I can do about it coz don't have any proof, he calls my cell but always of a different number.

Am worried like hell about my grandparents, they are so frail and unfit to be living on their own but won't accept any sort of help and there's nothing I can do so feel useless.

Worried about mum who's worrying about grandparents (her parents), once again I'm useless and there's nothing I can do.

Had enough of the pain caused by the fall, mainly in my right leg and up left hand side and in neck. Also getting really light headed and/or faint caused by being knocked unconscious from it.

Just feeling at a loose end, like I can't do anything to fix it all. Mainly I've just had enough.

Found out that Nana is in hospital after a fall.

Been sitting here in tears for the last couple of hours and have work at 4pm so need to stop.

Oh LC, so sorry your Gran has had a fall. I do hope she hasnt had a break, but thats a huge possibility. (nanna sorry)

But, this happening will now put them in the system so to speak, they will be entitled to home help etc etc, and the hospital should see to it that they get what they need. You can get on side with your Mum and talk about it with whoever necessary at hosp.

we just have to chew off one thing at a time when there are so many ends, otherwise you get in a tangle.

Sounds like you need to be seen again if you were concussed and having dizzies.

One step at a time. Family first.

Take care

They've been in the system for a while now. Especially since Grandad had a triple by-pass in mid 2008. They do qualify for home help, and for a short while there they did have a cleaner twice a week and meals on wheels, but they stopped it all and won't have a bar of it. Mum tries to help out where she can and will bake stuff and take it round to them so they just need to re-heat it or something, but as she said, she can't do that all the time coz she's also got my younger brother and at the moment they getting ready to move into their new house. I just feel so useless up here, even though I know they probably wouldn't accept any help anyway.