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Post by peterpam on Sat Sep 12, 2009 7:06 am

onwards and upwards, decided to edit this post as I felt it inapropriate

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Post by Paddy on Sat Sep 12, 2009 8:43 am

I'm sorry you felt that way, Pam.

There was nothing there that I could see anyone here taking offense with or at.

I reckon, young Pam, that you need to be more kind to yourself, and allow yourself to acknowledge the strength and the appropriateness of your hurt, anger, disappointment; don't you?

There are times when those feeling are all very valid and I'da thunked, young Pam, that you were not all that entirely without reason or cause for your Vent.

Be gentle with you eh, and don't feel you need to self-censor here, cos I suspect you don't.

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Post by peterpam on Sat Sep 12, 2009 9:00 am

Thankyou Pat, I would just have hated to cause hurt to anyone by mistake. You and I both know, it was in no way aimed at anyone on this board.

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Post by Guest on Sat Sep 12, 2009 9:41 am

now I'm curious as to what was said...

It is usually the posts when people post what they TRULY think and feel that are more interesting than posts that are self censored from fear that others will be offended.

IMHO anyway.

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Post by Guest on Sun Sep 13, 2009 2:51 am

hmmm Peterpam....I think we have all done that in one way or another at one time or another.

I think we are all adult enough to realise that sometimes when we log onto here we are not always stable (funny that!) and sometimes things are said perhaps out of context or character and could be taken with exception, even the unintended exception.

The important thing with this site (In my humble opinion) is that we are allowed to vent. scream, shout etc and be supported by fellow members with positive comments.

Don't let what you say here bother you - easier said than done I know! The reason that I say that is because someone may even agree with you but not want to be the first to say so, or they may feel the way you do and feel isolated. You would help them by telling your view too - then they would see they were not the only ones feeling like that.

I hope that made sense to you - because it was written in a bit of a gibberish way,

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Post by peterpam on Sun Sep 13, 2009 6:17 am

Hi guys, I felt I needed to explain, when I made this post last evening I was overwhelmed by something that was going on in my life, which I had thought I had healed from. Clearly not, so back to the drawing board. I did not edit out of fear, I edited because there are others here struggling with related issues, that are trying so very hard and I did not want those lovely people to feel my hurt, as it may well have impacted on them and their situation.
Paddy thankyou hun, I needed that hug as the night only got worse, (different issue). Today I had to make a VERY hard call which involved something to do with my daughter her drinking and her impact on my wee darling grandbaby. I had to ask her to leave my home and not come back until she sorted her behaviour. I did this because whilst she stayed with me and I looked after our wee one, I was enableing her to neglect and there is no way I am going to let that happen. Tonight I am a little numb, but as she had been warned, I felt I had no other avenue. I will still see my wee darling (hopefully) but it wont be the same. Before she left I hugged my wee one (with much sadness) and told her how much I loved both her and her mummy, but I needed mummy to deal with her issues. Now I could do with another hug, the tears are starting to roll.

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Post by Guest on Sun Sep 13, 2009 8:52 am



keep your chin up - i am sure you have made the right decision - albeit not an easy one.

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Post by peterpam on Sun Sep 13, 2009 4:35 pm

Thankyou mylife, a very emotionally draining weekend, but yep, I had to do what I had to do, but still very very difficult.

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Post by Guest on Sun Sep 13, 2009 10:51 pm

Yep I can totally relate to emotionally draining weekends!! As a matter a fact I could probably classify this year as emotionally draining.

All I can say is onwards and upwards my friend. OK?

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Post by greasemonkey on Mon Sep 14, 2009 2:11 am

peterpam wrote:onwards and upwards, decided to edit this post as I felt it inapropriate


awwwww! pam!
posts of this nature (I didntget to read it) are good for the clarification (transparency) of ones ego.
This we must do,
as egos need thorough cleansing like
tears do in un-earthing ones Soul!
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Post by peterpam on Mon Sep 14, 2009 8:41 am

You know what, wow, better day today, My birthday anddd my daughter sent me a happy birthday txt, how good is that ,considering the weekend, and I have been out with all my freinds and had a wonderful evening. Life is ok.

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Post by Guest on Mon Sep 14, 2009 9:17 am

hey, Happy Birthday Pam, great to hear you have had a great day!

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Post by Guest on Mon Sep 14, 2009 9:37 am

happy birthday peterpam,

21 again?

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Post by Paddy on Mon Sep 14, 2009 11:53 am

Happy, Happy Birthday, Pam - sheesh, I was nearly too late Embarassed

I'm so pleased you got their Messages - thats so nice to know.

Happy Birthday, Young Pam. Mmmmwah

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Post by Guest on Mon Sep 14, 2009 11:55 am

Happy Birthday Pam. Great that you heard from your daughter, hope things change for the best and you all have a reunion soon.

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Post by daze7 on Mon Sep 14, 2009 9:58 pm

Belated 'Happy Birthday' Pam ..... sounds like you had a nice time.

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Post by peterpam on Mon Sep 14, 2009 11:42 pm

Thankyou all. Paddy, I'm so taking a liking to being call young Pam, lol, if only, oh well young at heart anyways.

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Post by Guest on Tue Sep 15, 2009 6:10 am

Of course you are young!!

People in my book don't get old until they are in their 80's - of course this gets moved with every decade I turn over!

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Post by peterpam on Tue Sep 15, 2009 7:03 am

LOL Mylife, well I feel young, well most of the time anyway.

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