Getting Older

12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

This I realised
at the pit of depression sometime back.
Not only did it soften me
but it bought the hurt-out
and they could look at me again.

Pain is better out than in.

Left in,
dreams of a Certain Nature become concious during sleep.
Nightmares are formed this Way!

My children always seem to see me crying, and they have learnt compassion from it.

you are female?

Gm, I don't think it matters what gender you are, does it?. Lets show our children, that no matter what gender we are, we all have feelings. By keeping our feelings in, we teach our children to do the same. Crying does not show weakness, it shows strenght.

[quote="peterpam"]Gm, I don't think it matters what gender you are, does it?. Lets show our children, that no matter what gender we are, we all have feelings. By keeping our feelings in, we teach our children to do the same. Crying does not show weakness, it shows strenght.[/quote]

Tell a warrior that
and He will self destruct!
There is lots to learn about Men.
I went to a Suicide-Seminar Here.......many years back.
there were two Men-healers in amonst a group of 280 Women-healers.
Women make good healers for us Men-folk,
but Men also make good helpers for men.
Read-up on Biddulphs stuffing.

To me,it matters-not what sex i am
as i know myself.

Gm isn't that interesting 2-280, wow. I am fortunate to have just as many male friends as I do female and my male freinds would be by far more enlightening. Men tell me how it is, women tell me what they think I want to hear

well yes that could be gender differences, although I have learnt not to say what i think others want to hear.

the truth is best,